God’s Perfect Timing and Faithfulness: A Journey of Trust and Obedience
David and I first became good friends in December of last year when he supported me during a major project called His Toy Store. He became my tech support, helping in the planning, execution, and follow-up stages of the event. At the time, he was already working part-time as a stage tech at our church, and our working relationship naturally grew from there.
As we continued working together, I began to hear more of David’s heart for serving in compassion ministry. It didn’t take much for me to recognize his passion and invite him to join the core team of our Outreach Ministry, where I served as the team lead. Around April, David boldly expressed his intentions to pursue me for marriage. Though I admired his courage and honesty, I turned him down. I valued our friendship deeply, but I simply didn’t see him in a romantic light.
Early last year, the Holy Spirit began stirring something in my heart. I felt an undeniable tug to pray and fast for marriage—a dream I thought I had let go of. I had convinced myself I was content being single and didn’t include marriage in my prayers during our 2023 corporate fasting. But God reminded me of a prophecy I received in college: “You and your family will serve the Lord.” Decades had passed since that word, and I had almost lost hope. Yet, during this time of prayer, I asked God for a lifetime ministry partner—someone who would lead, walk with me, and share His heart for the city.
Even when David expressed his desire to pursue me, I didn’t immediately connect the dots. God was answering my prayers, but I didn’t see it.
We continued working together in ministry, but by June, I felt overwhelmed by the intensity of his feelings and how they began to surface during ministry moments. I remember telling him, “I cannot do this now,” essentially asking him to take a step back. Feeling the weight of my personal responsibilities and ministry demands, I confided in one of our pastors, who decided to transition David out of his ministry involvement to give us both space.
During this season of separation, I focused on receiving personal healing from a past hurt, and ministering to my family, who was going through a difficult time. While I appreciated the space, I started to notice how much I missed my interactions with David. I found myself talking about him more to my family and even my mentor. In hindsight, I was missing him more than I realized.
In September, as we prepared for another cycle of our ESL classes, I reached out to David for tech support. Though hesitant, he agreed to help. This time, I noticed a significant change in him—a calmness and steadiness that hadn’t been there before. Our interactions became more natural, and I felt safe and at ease with him. Slowly, I began opening my heart to him, though I was still cautious with my emotions.
Personally, I was wrestling with an overwhelming sense of discontent. I prayed daily, asking God for clarity and a breakthrough. I even began to dream big, praying boldly for a move to New York in 2025, imagining life in a Manhattan apartment (I currently live in NJ). Though I couldn’t see how it would happen, I trusted God with my desires.
By late 2024, I found myself spending more time with David outside of ministry. He planned thoughtful outings for me and my mom, including a day trip to Seven Lakes, where he went out of his way to ensure my mom’s comfort. His kindness, thoughtfulness, and care began to break down the walls I had built around my heart.
Despite all this, I still wrestled with hesitation. I processed my emotions with my sisters, crying out to God for clarity. One night, after pouring my heart out in prayer, I woke up with an unexplainable peace. When I shared my hesitations with my mom, she gently reminded me, “It’s about time you think of your own happiness. Don’t wait anymore. David really cares for you. Don’t let him go.” Her words pierced my heart, and I knew it was time to say yes—not just to David, but to the Lord’s plan for my life.
Through this journey, God sustained me. He reminded me of the safety and joy that come from walking in His will. His love brought healing, clarity, and courage to embrace the new thing He was doing in my life.
Today, I am deeply grateful to have David as my ministry partner. He is not just someone to share life with, but someone who shares the same passion for God’s work. Together, we are living out the truth that God truly makes everything beautiful in His perfect time. If you’re in a season of waiting, take heart. Trust God’s process, for His plans are always good, and His timing is always perfect.
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